5.23.2010
It's now officially Summer!
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Fun with Friends
Here is Lindsey and Abi! They have been great friends since we moved here!
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5.21.2010
Hello? How are you?
We are loving the new playset!
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What color are you on?
This post is a couple of weeks old, but it will probably have a better "tune" this week than it would have a few weeks ago! We have been in a "down swing" with behavior if you know what I mean. There were quite a few limits being pushed, rules being broken, aruguing going on, and I was at THE END! There were too many days that I found myself in tears and in total frustration about how to handle behavior problems in our house. It isn't anything new or earth shattering, just the day to day arguing and disobedience that will wear.you.out if you don't get control of it.
There are many long, no fun stories I could go into, but here is the short version of what was happening:
- During the day, if things didn't go a certain way, meltdowns would start.
- Lindsey is the chid that we were having the most trouble with and she is also the child that I have the hardest time connecting with. She shuts down so much that I get frustrated.
- So it got to a point that I would feel like I was just going to make her mad, so I wouldn't "battle" her
- This meant that by bedtimes I was DONE and Ryan would "take over" and talk to her and get her settled down. He does a good job of talking to Lindsey and I'm so grateful, but things would be solved for one night and then repeat itself the next night.
- Needless to say, we hit a wall together and decided that we had to do something to get things back under control.
This comes from my classroom management days! It felt so drastic in a way to do this at home, but realized quickly that anytime we had to get behavior under control, a chart had worked wonders for Lindsey. This time we are not using a chart, but are using something VERY visual for her to see and know exactly where she stands and how things are going. There is no question on what her behavior should be, and there is no question on what the consequences of wrong behavior is.
It has seemed to work well. I think just the fact that we set obvious boundaries and clear consequences (again) helped her to realize who was in control--not her! :) We haven't been home very much this week due to schedules, but she has had some good days too! She changed her color this morning for the first time. Bedtime has been a breeze. I'm so thankful. I hope it will last.
She's a sweet girl and I love when she chooses to act like it!
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5.18.2010
My Graduate
Here is a self portrait that Lindsey drew at school! I love it for so many reasons!- I love her blonde hair
- I LOVE her lips
- I love that she has earrings
- I love the she has on a necklace
- I love her blue eyes
- I love her eyelashes
Lindsey is such the artist! She's such a smart girl! I'm so blessed to be her mommy!
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Just A Swingin'
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5.14.2010
Baby Will
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Field Trip to Kindergarten
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Go Quik Stiks! (TONS of pics!)
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Yeahhhhh Honey!
for Honey to read to them before we had to leave.
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Cynda's Birthday and Mother's Day
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